Everyone has a beautiful memory about their school life. Among many things, relationships are the hardest to leave behind. Some schools try to stop students' puppy love(早恋)in different ways. Anything about "love" relationship is not allowed. For example, a middle school in Fu'an, Fujian Province stops boys and girls from sitting together for meals and keeps boys from looking at girls for a long time; a middle school in Luo-he, Henan Province sets rules that boys and girls should meet in bright places with at least 5 other classmates, and if they meet secretly. they will be asked to go home with parents for more than a week and even advised to leave school: a middle school in Jinan, Shandong Province stops everyone from sending food and gifts to or receivingthemfrom the opposite sex(异性). It also stops students from helping the opposite sex with bags and coats and requires a"44 cm" distance between boys and girls.
Some students are not satisfied with such rules. "Why should we have strict places for different sexes to eat? It's not using bathrooms!" Some people who care about the intelligence development of the students say that they should be more creative with fewer rules. For this, I'd like to say that middle school students are going throughpuberty. It's normal for them to have some feelings for the opposite sex. Schools should provide correct guidance and education instead of giving simple and strict rules and asking the students to follow.
