When I was a kid, my parents sent me to a summer camp in New Hampshire. At the1we did tons of great things like swimming, sports and archery, but for me,the most memorable experience was an overnight trip of mountain climbing. If you've ever 2 a mountain, you know it's a physical challenge, especially when you're carrying your food and shelter on your back. When campers got tired, they 3 started complaining.
"How much farther is it?"
"I can't go any further."
"My 4is too heavy. Can you carry it for me?"
The reply of the teachers was,"Suck it up (忍耐一下)!" The 5is that the complaining campers were nowhere near the point of exhaustion. If they had been, the teachers would have noticed the signs and given them 6. The kids simply weren't used to the physical challenge. Once they realized they weren't getting any sympathy, they 7 the discomfort, and in most cases 8 having a great time. In my camp days, I don't recall a single camper complaining at the top of the 9.
There are two ways to deal with an 10situation. You can complain, or you can make the best of it. If you complain, you might feel like you're getting that11 energy out, but you're probably not going to cause a positive change. It's much more likely that your complaining will cause the 12 of those around you. No one likes a complainer. They're 13 and they hurt the group. Complaining makes life 14for everyone. Instead, if you determine to master your own suffering, to move past it and focus on a 15, it's my experience that you'll realize it wasn't bad in the first place.