①Anger（生气） often makes us uncomfortable. Seeing your child's anger can be especially uncomfortable.
In order to reduce this feeling, parents will often encourage children to "stop crying" and say things like "It's nothing to cry about." It's moments like these that plant the seeds（种子） of unhealthy anger. If a child never sees his or her parent express anger, he or she should never express anger, either. But if a parent always expresses their anger loudly, the child may think of anger as something that he is always afraid of. So we should learn how to
create healthier anger in our kids.
②The first thing you can do to create healthier anger in your children is to practice creating healthier anger inyourself. Once you're better at experiencing anger and expressing it in a healthy way, you'll be able to set a good example for your kids.
③Stopping kids from expressing their feelings is wrong. You may feel bad when you believe you are wrong.When children express their feelings and are told that it's nothing to cry about, they come to know that they themselves are bad.
④We need to raise them in an environment where it's safe to express feelings. Once you feel more comfortable with your own anger, you can teach your children why anger is a helpful feeling. When your kid expresses anger, help them find out what it is that has made them angry. Why did it make them angry? How did it do that? Then, you can teach them that those feelings are never wrong and our expressions of our feelings are in ourcontrol.
Anger is natural and common, and it can be experienced and expressed in a healthy way.
