Let's face it:Many children behave badly because they feel their parents are being too strict.They break the rules as a way of protesting their parents' control over them.
Unfortunately,they don't always realize there may be reasons why adults have set the rules in the first place. Kids don't always realize this and can get into a lot of trouble by crossing their parents' red lines.
They are told when they have to go to school, how they need to behave in school, when they should go to bed, when they should get up, etc. Often a child feels the rules don't always make sense.
As a result, children may become upset that they've been bound by rules that they have no say over. Nevertheless, the effects of doing this could be damaging for them. It is only after the teenager has become addicted to nicotine or starts failing classes in school that it becomes clear there were good reasons for the boundaries that had been set in place.
So what can be done about this? What if we brought up our kids to feel they had more control over the decisions that "control" their lives? In this way, they would feel that they had a voice in the rules within the home and may be more likely to follow them. If children can understand them and be part of the decision-making, it is no longer parents forcing their will on their child; it's about what's best for them and their lives.
A.How do we let children understand our rules?
B.Often, it's to protect them from being harmed.
C.Children are old to follow certain rules from an early age.
D.Children may view these riles as more beneficial to pare.
E.What if we involved children in discussions about household rules?
F.Sometimes, parents may force rules regardless of the child's feelings.
G.They believe breaking the rules can be a way to break free and "be themselves".
