Being polite can help you make friends，but being rue(粗鲁) can make you1 friends.
Being polite does not seem difficult2 for many people, it is a challenge (挑战). You might want to know3 to be a politic: person. The following are suggestions. Be gentle. not pushy (咄咄逼人的). When you do something, offer something, or make request，you do it4 making them feel like they are being pushed into a corner. For example，if you are having a conversation. it 's OK to ask a 5 or offer your opinion， but it is rule to be pushy. Even if you 're trying to help，such6 offering to pay for lunch and offering to wash the dishes，don 't be pushy.7 the person says"No, thank you", then you can say" Please, I 'd really love to help. " If they8 say "no", then let it go(到此为止). It is 9 that they want to do something for you, so let them do it. You can do something for them some 10 time.
11 a conversation by asking questions about the other person. Try not to talk about 12 too much. If they want to know, they will 13 . Listen when they are talking and looking interested. Don't look around the room when they are14 . That15 you are not interested or what they say is not important or interesting enough.
