To have a good conversation is a pleasure for most people. Sometimes there are awkward silences while people try to think of something to say. Some conversations are one-sided. One person asks all the question, and the other just gives one-word answers. Actually, a good conversation needs two or more people to keep it going. They need to say things that others can answer and expand on.
"What do you do?" is a good place to start. You can also simply say, "Tell me about yourself." Most people love an opportunity to talk about themselves.
As the other person begins to respond to your question, look for common ground.When the person finishes their story, you can comment and mention something that you did. Then you can talk about those activities and your plans for the coming weekend.
When the other person is talking, listen to them. Do not interrupt. When they finish, ask some more questions, and listen to the answers. Similarly, if you are answering a question, don't go on and on.A good verbal exchange is a little like a tennis game, in which the ball goes back and forth. Also, avoid yes/no questions. They can stop a conversation. Instead, ask open-ended questions using what or why.
A conversation should end well, too. After you've conversed for a bit, you can say, "I need to run now." You may also give a reason.
Now go out and enjoy a good conversation.
A. Give an answer and stop.
B. But not every conversation is good.
C. Talking with others can be fun for everyone.
D. Positive comments and conversations produce a chemical reaction too.
E. To get the ball rolling in a conversation, ask something about the other person.
F. If you ask someone about their weekend, the person could talk about what they did.
G. Say something like, "I really need to get going. My exercise class starts in 10 minutes."
