How do people respond when you have a talk with them? Maybe they brush your emotions aside or never listen to you. Some tips will help you gain respect by communicating more effectively.
Use confident body language. This type of body language can increase your self-respect and help you earn people's respect. Confident body language can include good eye contact and appropriate postures（姿势）. Keep your eyes forward instead of down.
Improve your listening skills. Good listeners often come across as sympathetic and caring, which are admirable qualities. A skilled listener can make others feel valued and appreciated. To improve your listening skills, start by paying more attention to people during conversations. Put your phone away and focus on what they are saying rather than what you want to say in response. Give them plenty of time to speak.
Avoid oversharing. It's common to talk too much and start rambling （瞎扯） when you get nervous or want to make a good impression. But to gain others' respect, you can't ramble than what you want to say in response. Give them plenty of time to speak.
Avoid oversharing. It's common to talk too much and start rambling （瞎扯） when you get nervous or want to make a good impression. But to gain others' respect, you can't ramble or talk too much about yourself. Get everyone involved and talk about shared interests or hobbies. That way, people will start valuing your input and what you say.
Sometimes you may have a difficult conversation or come into conflict with others. If you get cross, people won't take you seriously because they'll think you're too emotional and unreasonable. In that case, you should have the conversation in private instead of making a scene in public. You can also do it sometime after you've cooled down.
A. Keep calm and your anger in check.
B. There's no need to fill every silence.
C. Therefore, he may be respected in return.
D. Try to make your message as clear as possible.
E. You might feel that you just don't matter to others.
E. You might feel that you just don't matter to others.
F. Don't leave your arms crossed or hands in your pockets.
G. Instead, you need to slow down and find some common ground.
