Fu Lei's Family Letters is a book of letters written by Chinese translator and writer Fu Lei to his elder son Fu Cong, who is a famous pianist. Between 1954 and 1966, Fu Cong spent a lot of time away from home training as a piano player. As a result, writing letters became Fu Lei's usual way of communicating with his elder son. Fu Min, Fu Lei's younger son edited the letters and the book came out in 1981.
The book shows Fu Lei's family tradition and value. To Fu Lei, the purpose of education of a person, is to make that person useful to the society. Fu Lei praised his son Fu Cong after winning a piano competition. Fu Lei wrote, "We are happy because you make your country proud. I am so excited when I think about your future. You will make great progress and serve more people, encourage them and heal them. "
In the family letters, Fu Cong was also advised to read famous Chinese texts. When reading these books, Fu Cong was told to connect ideas and feelings together, for that would help him become a better person. To Fu Lei, learning to be a good person comes before any academic training.
Fu Lei's Family Letters has a great impact on people in China because it helps many young students understand how they should live their lives. The following contents are teenagers' favorite:
"We won't get hurt so long as our moods stay stable. "
"The degree of success is not completely under our control. It's half through personal efforts and half through destiny. But so long as you stay tough, you can weather failures, blunders and heavy blows—whether such blows stem from interpersonal, livelihood-related, technical or academic matters.
"A person needs to have the courage to confront reality and past mistakes. As such, he can come up with sensible analysis and in-depth appreciation. Only then he won't be weighed down by bad memories.
