Laozi is a great man in China. He tells us that best character is just like water.All life in the world cannot live water, but water never asks for anything in return. It just keeps giving quietly. seems that we have always taken qualities like bravery and toughness(坚韧) as virtues(美德), but we should not forget what water has taught us.
In dealing with people, we can act like water. Do our best help others without trying to get praise or money. At the same time, stay humble(谦虚的). It unwise to always talk about the help you gave to others. Remember water will not choose where to go ;it just flows to the place where it is needed.