Having a roommate can be one of the best experiences in college or, easily, one of the worst.Follow these tips to avoid the common mistakes that turn good roommate relations bad.
Talk things out.
Communication is key. If something happens, sit down with your roommate and have a face-to-face conversation. I've seen roommate relations fall apart because something happens and, instead of talking to each other, the two start complaining about their roommates behind their backs.
Don't expect to be best friends.
Some roommates become the best of friends, and some don't. Don't put pressure (压力) on yourself or your roommate, especially when you first meet. And if your roommate doesn't end up being your best friend, don't worry.
Ask before you take.
This applies (适用) to food, clothes and anything else. If you want to keep a relation going, show your roommate that you have respect for what is his or hers by asking first. Clean up.
This should do without saying. Don't be lazy. Or, at least, don't bury your roommate in your clothes and garbage. But being considerate with where you put your things will help you avoid conflict.
A. This creates nothing but terrible situations and unhappiness.
B. Even if you both agree to share everything, you should still ask.
C. So you need to think twice before you help your roommates out.
D. Sometime you get stuck with someone who has tons of bad energy.
E. You don't have all the time to clean your room and keep it organized.
F. It all starts with you to have a good relation with your roommate.
G. Remember, you're trying to make a new friend, not to frighten your roommate away.
