How to be a friend of yourself

    We often pay attention to developing relationships with others, however, we forget the basic step: being friends of ourselves. How can we have good relationships with others if we don't even have good relationship with ourselves?

    First, forgive yourself. It's true that you are not perfect, but neither is everybody else. It's normal to make mistakes

    Second, accept things you can't change. There are some things you cannot change, such as your background and your past if you face the things you can't change, just smile, and move on.

    Third, focus on your achievements. You can try making a list of your achievements, which do not have to be big things there are a lot of small but important achievements in our life

    Last but not least, stop comparing yourself with others. You are unique. your success is not determined(决定) by other people. Instead, it is determined by your own life purpose.