We all believe we listen well and yet many times we feel others are not listening to us. However, listening goes in both directions -- you may believe you are listening well, but how often have you completely forgotten what was said to you?
Make eye contact.
When people talk, they put out visual clues that add to the conversation and meaning of their word.
Stop talking.
You can't listen, talk and at the same time completely receive the meaning of the other person's words.
React without words.
Let the other person know you are listening through physical reactions, such as head nods, smiles, frowns and eye contact.
Behave as an effective listener. The more you continue to behave as a listener, the more you will be an effective listener.
A. Act as a listener.
B. Make eye contact with the person who is talking to you.
C. There are a few ways to become a more effective listener.
D. Wait your turn and take in what has been said to you before you make a reply.
E. These may also help to let the speaker know whether you are fully understanding his words.