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    I often argue(争论)with my mum when I grow older. She tries her best to make my lift easier and she doesthings for me. Although I know my mum loves me. I don't think she understands me. She likes making every decision instead of me. She even chooses the clothes I wear. I am not given a chance to anything! I think it's important to be independent(独立的)and make . I want control my lite . I am puzzled(困惑的)and have no idea what I should do.