Modesty (谦逊) is a valuable quality in many cultures around the world. However, the phrase maosuizijian seems to disagree with this.
During the Warring States Period, the Qin army marched (进军) on Handan., Prince Pingyuan asked help from the state of Chu. He wanted to pick 20 talented people to go with him. However, he could only find 19 people who were good enough. Then, a man named Mao Sui volunteered.
Prince Pingyuan looked at Mao Sui with doubt, "How long have you been here with me?"
"Three years," Mao Sui answered.
"I hear that a person with talent is like an awl (锥子) in a cloth bag. Its sharp point will soon pierce through the bag. You've been here for a long time. But I haven't seen any of your achievements.". said Prince Pingyuan.
"What I'm asking you now is to put me into that bag.. But not only the point-the whole awl," Mao Su said confidently.
Impressed, Prince Pingyuan allowed Mao to join his team, and Mao proved very helpful. Now the phrase "Mao Sui recommending himself" is used to describe someone who volunteers to do a task.
However, there is a fine line between self-confidence and arrogance (傲慢).. but a strong ego (自我主义) can harm your career and professional relationships.
| A. If you do that, I will pierce through it B. Maybe you don't have any talent C. In China, this is not different D. It's important to believe in yourself E. Seeing that Handan was in danger |
