In our country, parents pay so much attention to their children that they would like to help their children to do everything, including study and work. Gradually, some of the children get used to depending on their parents and family members. As a result, these children lose the ability to face their lives by themselves. They don't know how to solve problems independently. It is not good for their children. Our parents should learn to help children to be independent.
Here are some suggestions for our parents. To start with, it is quite important for our parents to realize that our children will grow up and have their own ideas and thoughts as time goes by. Parents should encourage their kids to make some decisions by themselves. Parents should give their children more chances to experience the world and life around them. Secondly, our parents should believe that our children have enough ability to deal with their personal matters. Parents should ask their children to do some family chores properly because it is a good chance to train them. Of course, I am not saying that our parents should not help our children when they are getting into trouble, but I mean that our parents should give our children a chance to deal with some matters by themselves.
To be independent is important for children because only independent people can live and enjoy a full and meaningful life.
