Teachers want to get along with you and enjoy seeing you learn. But teachers and students sometimes have a clash (冲突). This can happen between any two people. If you show your teacher that you want to make the situation better, he or she will probably do everything possible to make that happen. Take these steps if the problem seems difficult to solve.
★Talk to an adult you trust.
★Give it time. You may not feel comfortable at once with your teachers, but that may change as you get to know each other.
★If necessary, talk with your parents about what to do next. Lots of times, a meeting can be set up to discuss the problem. This mayclear the air and make things better. Everyone's goal should be to create trust and kindness.
Your relationship with your teachers is often your first chance to develop a “business relationship”. It is different from your family relationship and friendship, which are built on love. In a business relationship, both parties get something out of the relationship. But they don't necessarily need to be good friends, like each other or understand each other well. They simply need to respect each other and be polite.
When you act this way, and remember that you're not the only kid in the class, you are helping your teacher. Your teacher will notice this. Teachers also like it when students follow directions and when they learn and obey the rules of the classroom. For example, these may be rules about listening when another student is talking, about taking turns, or about raising your hand when you want to say something or ask a question.
