How do you feel when you go to a birthday party? What about making a speech in front of the class? Do you get really shy? If you think you are too shy and want to be a little braver, try the following. You can make it!
1 Tell people you're shy.
There is no need to hide (隐藏) it. When they get to know you're a shy kid, they will understand you better. This also helps you feel more at ease (自在) in talks.
2 Try to smile more.
When you smile, people think you are friendly and easy to talk to. Remember that other people have feelings, too. And most
people will stay away from an angry-looking person.
3 Learn to be a good talker.
If you find it hard to start talks, say something nice about people around you. Think about how great you feel when someone says something nice to you.
4 Get your attention elsewhere.
Think more about ways to enjoy the party or the game. Don't waste (浪费) time worrying about your looks or whether people like you or not.
