Sometimes boys and girls find it really hard to properly deal with the relationship with people of the opposite sex（相反性别）
Keep a normal and healthy state of mind. Our schools and classes are made up of boys and girls. We should make as many friends as possible. We should keep in touch with the other sex in public instead of in secret.
If you are a shy person, you can also find a way out. First of all, you can make friends with the students who have the same interest and hobby as you. If you keep doing like that, little by little, you will gladly find you are also as free to express yourself as others.
Don't fall into early love. The boys and girls at a adolescence（青春期） are rich in feeling. They are easy to regard the friendship as a sign of love and fall in love with each other at an early age. An apple won't taste sweet until it is full ripe. Boys and girls at middle school are too young to carry the heavy duty of love. Do keep out of early love.
| A. Don't be too nervous or too shy. B. In my opinion, early love is a green apple that can't be eaten. C. It is very natural for the boys and girls to make friends with each other. D. As both of you have much in common, you may have much to talk about. E. As a result, early love should be forbidden by all the teachers and parents. F. If you have problems of this kind, here are some "dos and don'ts" for you to follow. |
