Teenagers have their own thoughts and act like they know almost anything. However, in fact, they don't have much experience. How to deal with these difficult teenagers?
Keep calm(镇静)．
The first rule is to keep calm. When you feel angry, take a deep breath and count slowly to ten.
You must be calm.
Set up clear boundaries(界限)．
Teenagers want great independence. They sometimes challenge their teachers. It's very important to set boundaries. The first boundary is that you will be treated with respect. Besides respect, there should also be rules.
Sometimes, there are a group of difficult students in class. Experienced teachers know that when this happens, it's not necessary to deal with every student. They will deal with the leader of the group first. In Chinese, the skill is called"Qin zei xian qin wang."
Find a right way to communicate.
When talking with teenagers, show understanding. Anyway, you were a teenager years ago.
A.Deal with the leader first. B.Then you can deal with the problem. C.Notice students' communication. D.The following can be helpful to you. E.Then other members of the group will be easily deal with. F.But only fair and reasonable boundaries are useful. |
