How to be outgoing
If you think you are too shy and want to be a little outgoing, try the following. You can make it.
There's no need to hide (藏) it. When they get to know you are a shy kid, they'll understand you better. This also helps you feel more comfortable when talking with others.
Try to smile more.
Smile to others so they will think you are friendly and easy to talk to. Remember that other people have feelings too and most people will stay away from an angry- looking face.
Talk to others first.
If you find it hard to do so, say something nice about people around you. Think about how great you feel when someone says something nice to you. Doesn't it make you want to keep talking to those people?
Turn your mind to somewhere else.
Don't waste time worrying about your looks or if people like you .
Reward(奖励) yourself.
Each time after you say " hi" to someone for the first time, say to yourself " You did it" or it could be something bigger, like buying yourself an ice- cream.
Every small step you take does help. Keep trying and one day you won't be " shy" anymore.
A. Try to start a conversation first. B. Let people know that you are shy. C. Answer others' questions at first. D. Think more about how to enjoy the moment. E. Remember that change takes time and practice. |
What do you think is the best way to overcome(克服) shyness and why?(不超过 20词)
